It’s been some time my JuliPeep! I’ve had the pleasure of being able to analyze some interactions this year and I decided to write about what could possibly help those who want to live an honest lifestyle, but don't know how ...
Honesty is probably the most underrated policy to live by when interacting with people, but most importantly, when engaging with ourselves. Why resort to being deceitful to begin with? A person is only deceiving themselves when they choose to deceive others. Think about it for a second. One lie leads to another, and then that lie leads to two others. That tower of lies is going to tip over at some point. On the contrary, if you maintain an honest lifestyle, you’ll never have to deal with the falling tower of doom.
Even so, being honest isn’t as easy for some people because it’s their way of life.
Maybe you want to live a life filled with honesty, but you’re afraid of the outcome, because you've already lied so much in your lifetime. Allow me to tell you, there's no reason to fear the unknown unless you know the outcome FOR CERTAIN, which would then imply that you know what the unknown holds ... which then means you had the chance to analyze the potential consequences in the early stages of your decision making. 😂 NO WONDER YOU’RE AFRAID OF THE OUTCOME bahahaaaaa 😂.
There are people in our world that will sabotage their own progress because of fear, and the lies that come thereafter. That fear hinders their progress in such a toxic way, they themselves don’t know how to create the antidote for the toxins they’ve managed to fabricate. Not to mention, part of that toxicity originates from …
you guessed it … LYING bahahaaaaa 😂
Do you see where I’m going with this?
Let me help you, buddy ‘ol pal. If you are a toxin to yourself or anyone else, follow these steps:
- Forgive yourself
- Ask the person you’ve hurt for forgiveness
- Clear the air
- Move on
Life will be much better if you don’t live with that burden of the “what if” or “i should have done this,” etc
Don't carry negativity into your future and DEFINITELY refrain from applying it onto others. Release the negativity by unleashing the truth. Not just that, embrace the consequences and refrain from putting yourself in these terrible situations again. If you know you want something and you feel that something needs to be said, fear not...and express yourself. Let me add, if true and everlasting love is in the balance, you better take the leap of faith and reconcile with the world you want to make peace with haha. OR … you’ll be dating your partner Karma for the entirety of your life. hehe. Not a pleasant partnership at all.
You can sit in fear for as long as you want.
You can run away from your inner demons and the problems they bring as well.
In the end, ask yourself:
Do I prefer to live a life where I’ll consistently be fleeing from my issues, tormented by my past, or would I prefer to face my issues head on... one by one ... as I live in peace and make room for an even more peaceful future?
Facing Fear is one of the greatest stepping stones to go beyond oneself.
Fearing failure creates a detrimental cycle in one’s attempts towards success. Fear will induce the actions of self-sabotage & self-betrayal if not handled properly in the early stages of our lives. One must be able to face fear head on, with the willingness to learn, adapt & conquer. Being able to do so is what creates the gap between those who succeed and those who do not.
Be solution oriented. Refrain from cheating on yourself, or others, by lying your way through your daily situations. Instead, figure out how to live life according to your path, so that you don’t have to fear honesty. Those who tame their weakness will always win in battle. Don’t let your fear of the truth send you in the opposite direction of what will bring you happiness & progress.
If there’s anything I can leave you with after this entry, at least remember this:
Sometimes the approach we take to solve our issues is the problem.
Now STOP LYING and live a life of Honesty LMAO. Maybe then, you’ll stop betraying yourself and those around you. Good Karma exists as well. I'd pick good karma over bad karma any day of the week.
Toodles my JuliPeeps!!
- Julio Caezar