Let me start by saying, that shyt isn't easy. However, that doesn’t mean that it’s impossible.
Forgetting may be impossible.
Forgiving is actually something that can be accomplished based on the will power of the person that was wronged. Even so, being “wronged” can be left to perspective. Not everyone has the same level of discontent with a given mishap.
The point is this…
Remember that forgetting something bad is almost impossible. If that’s the case, however, forgetting all that has been good is should also be impossible. When you make amends with that statement, you’ll realize that forgiveness gives way to a more peaceful life.
I believe that the difficulty in forgiving stems from whom we choose to forgive.
Take the time to analyze the situation with a level head. Observe the situation from all angles and make sure to weigh them against all other possible situations. Also, focus on the possible results that may occur if you forgive a specific person. Lastly, be ready. A mishap should only happen once…
...unless you are attempting to create a new innovation or succeed at some specified goal. People are complicated, goals aren’t.
Well, that’s my piece of wisdom for this time around. Hope it helps you, somehow.
- Julio Caezar